I have UK convention travel ducoment and i got refused for B2 USA tourist visa, please advise me?

Basically the consular said i have family living in the USA therefore i had strong ties in the USA so thats why I was ineligible for visa, the consoler didn't bother to have look at my supporting documents.. if felt very humiliated as I was a genuine non-immigrant tourist, how will I ever be able to see my family i miss them alot, should we arrange to meet in different country? and take the huge expenses